Unique Date Ideas for Long Term Couples

General Guidelines for Date Success:

  • Put it on calendar and make it an event!

  • Set up a regular babysitter for 2 times per month

  • Trade off planning the date – unless one person is ‘the planner’



  1. Activity:  Doing something that makes you interact in a positive and fun manner is a fabulous way to keep the relationship energized.

  • Karoake

  • Cooking or dancing class

  • Wine tasting

  • Western bar & ride a bull

  • Progressive dinner around town: appetizer, dinner, dessert/coffee or do tapas style at each local.


2.  Go Ethnic  – Try a new restaurant and partake in the entertainment.

  • African food with belly dancers

  • Japanese food and try karaoke

  • Middle Eastern food and try Hookah


3.  Push the Limits. Get a bit risque! Who better to be a little naughty with than your partner?

  • Sneak into a luxury hotel & use outdoor jacuzzi

  • Go skinny dipping

  • ‘Do it’ outside or somewhere a bit taboo


4.  Be Tourists in Your Own Town – No need to travel far to go on a mini vacation.

  •  Go to a city near you and do all the touristy things, as though you traveled far & wide to get there.

  • Check to see if there is a good band playing or a community event going on.


5.  5 star dining experience at home – Plan it well and doing a luxury night in can have huge rewards!

  • Set atmosphere with music & candles. Use your fine China and crystal.

  • Nice wine or ‘special cocktail’

  • Take out + dessert

  • ENCORE:  decorate bedroom with candles and flowers to romance it up. TIP: have special gift waiting on bed. – lingerie, little blue pill, satin mask, etc.

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